Category Archives: Relations

Discrimination in all its facets

Conflicting opinions can be the cause of indescribable suffering and chaos but in essence there is nothing wrong with them. It is how we react on them that is the determining factor. In fact, it is not that conflicting opinions can cause a conflict all by themselves. It is the negative response, on an idea… Read More »

The ARC triangle

I wrote this article for ex-Scientologists. It is not meant for Scientologists who believe in the Scientology philosophy. They will reject this information because it goes against their belief. By an ex-Scientologist I mean someone who was able to question his belief and is now free again to have his own opinions. He or she… Read More »


I looked at several YT video’s to get some idea of what people think about forgiveness. It is a hot topic. I thought I had it all worked out until I looked at a video from Wes Penre and Arial Glad who turned my view on this topic upside down. Then I discussed this subject… Read More »

Are fixed opinions at the root of all quarrels?

Sometimes it amazes me when I observe how much influence fixed opinions can have on people. And I don’t exclude myself. I know I have fixed opinions just as everyone else does. We cannot function without. A fixed opinion is basically a belief that something is the way you think it is. All that you… Read More »

Someone angry at you? Now what?

When we become angry we become angry. Allow me to explain. When the angry response is severe enough the person exhibiting this emotion has become the emotion. The awareness unit that we are has been taken over by emotion entirely. Why is this important to understand? When you deal with such a situation where someone… Read More »